“The fact that the Law of Attraction remains constant and stable throughout the universe was a big factor in your confidence as you came into your new physical environment, for you knew that the feedback of life would help you to remember and gain your footing. You remembered that the basis of everything is vibration and that the Law of Attraction responds to those vibrations and, in essence, organizes them, bringing things of like vibration together while holding those not of like vibrations apart.” Abraham (MONEY & THE LAW OF ATTRACTION)
Today we begin learning the emotional health secrets for attraction and manifestation – given to me by my teacher, the Amazing Grace. We begin the second quarter of this course on the Law of Attraction having now completed learning the physical steps to attraction and manifestation. The physical level, remember, is the last phase of manifestation. To review, anything we attract is first created on the etheric or spiritual level as an inspiration or concept, then on the mental level as a thought or idea, then on the emotional level as a desire or feeling, then finally on the physical level as a reality. This is true for everything, from a house, a business, disease, and even a baby!
You are always attracting. The question is, what are you attracting? Why are you attracting it? Everything in this universe is energy – electromagnetic energy. Everything and everyone emits energy, absorbs energy, and responds to energy. Energy goes out in waves, and those waves are measured in two ways: frequency which is how often the wave peaks, and amplitude , which is how high the wave peaks. When it comes to the energy of attraction and manifestation, frequency is determined by how often you focus your energy and actions on a particular outcome, and amplitude is determined by how strongly you focus on it.
Everything and everyone also vibrates at a particular frequency which is an energetic signature, or a station like on the radio. When you are attuned to a particular frequency, you attract and experience everything that is on the same wavelength. If you want to change your experience, you have to attune yourself to a different frequency, and you do this by shifting your thoughts, feelings and actions to align with your desired outcome. If you want a different tune you have to change the channel.
TIP 26: BE CONFIDENT
Confidence is the number one thing that people find attractive – but – confidence is not cockiness or arrogance (which are masks for insecurity). Confidence is owning your own power. To access instant confidence, put your right hand over your solar plexus (your diaphragm at the base of your ribs) – breathe into your solar plexus to center yourself in your power, and stand tall.
Over the past nine years I have worked hand-in-wing with Archangel Michael to help my clients take back their power from those to whom they gave it away. During an Angel reading or Angel healing I often feel or see etheric cords attached to my clients that are draining them of energy and leaving them feeling that they are lacking in confidence. The solar-plexus chakra is the chakra related to issues of power and control. The angels remind us that no one can control us without our permission. We always have options and choices and the angels are happy to help us if we ask. With Archangel Michael I cut the etheric cords between my clients and those to whom they have given away their power. If you wish to do this today with Archangel Michael – here are the action steps as per Angel Therapy(R): Recline on your back in a quiet and safe location. Focus on your solar plexus ( energy center behind your belly button). Say aloud or silently, “Archangel Michael, I call upon you now. Please cut any cords of fear from my solar-plexus to anyone whom I’ve given my power away to.” Then inhale and exhale deeply as Archangel Michael cuts the etheric cords to those you feared were controlling you. Then say, ” Archangel Michael, please give me the courage to take complete responsibility for every area of my life.” (Dr. Doreen Virtue) I find that sometimes this needs repeating down the road, as these cords can grow back if you give your power away again. Always remember to say thank you to the angels and guides that you are working with.
Jacqueline Whitmore is a business expert and entrepreneur coach and she has some advice about mastering confidence which she says is a skill and can be learned. She advises that we “act the part.” Body language can demonstrate confidence or insecurity so she reminds us to stand up tall and look people in the eye and avoid the limp handshake. Acting confident she says is also “dressing the part.” She says, “suit up for success” and then let your personality shine through your accessories such as bold jewellery or a colourful tie – both of which also serve as conversation starters. Confident people speak assertively – however – do not make the mistake of equating assertive with aggressive because they are very different energies. If you have trouble distinguishing assertiveness from aggression – then I suggest you read Doreen’s book ASSERTIVENESS FOR EARTH ANGELS. Think and act positively. Our new Prime Minister, Justin Trudeau, credited his majority election largely to his “sunny ways” and his positive attitude! His refusal to engage in negative campaigning. Ironically, before the election, his detractors were writing him off as someone absorbed by “unicorns and rainbows.” Negative self-talk leads to negative outcomes. Also, surround yourself with positive, happy people. Taking action will develop your confidence. The next time you attend an event – walk up to a stranger and initiate a conversation. Or, accept a project that you usually would turn down. Inaction tends to breed doubts and fear while action, even small actions, breeds confidence. Focus on your strengths not your weaknesses. The old guide and scout motto of “be prepared” is a good one. The more preparation that you do, the more confident you feel. Also, break tasks into “bite-sized” pieces says Jacqueline. I agree. Baby steps forward work for most of us.
I always call in and send the Angels of Confidence for my clients who are feeling down-trodden or beaten down by life. Their feedback tells me that this works! My own confidence in my work is largely due to the positive and often detailed feedback of my clients, who phone me and send me notes regarding the results of their work with me and the angels. Do you currently know anyone lacking in confidence? Why not take the time to sit quietly, NOW, and send them thoughts of increased confidence. This will help both of you. What you send out always returns. We are all ONE.
Focusing on gratitude for what we have already created always increases our confidence. Gratitude is a high vibration and very attractive. Concentrating every day on what you are grateful for increases your attractiveness. I am a great believer in ‘mining the past’ for confidence. Sometimes this can include past lives. What have you achieved in the past? As Dr. Deepak Chopra says, ” When you look in the ashes, look well.” There is always a way to dis-cover confidence.
Tiger’s eye is a great stone to carry for fostering self-confidence. It works directly with the sacral and the solar plexus chakras to enhance your connection with your personal power and strengthening your resolve while also softening your stubbornness. It has a reputation for increasing a person’s poise and self-esteem. Doreen says that the perfect stone for increasing your confidence as a public speaker is the variety called Red Tiger’s Eye.
My own little ‘trick’ when I feel any lack of confidence about anything is to ‘borrow’ confidence from an ascended master. I later found out that others do this too! Who knew? So, any ascended master will help you if you ask sincerely and are willing to receive. Of course, as you know, Archangel Michael is the go-to archangel for increasing our courage & confidence; however, I have also asked numerous others to increase the confidence of my clients. These include numerous goddesses such as Pele (pronounced PAY-lay), Kali (pronounced CAHL-ee), Asherah (pronounced AW-sher-ah or ASH-ay-raw) and Astarte (pronounced AH-star-tay or Ah-STAR-tee). Pele ignites passion in anyone who calls upon her sincerely and Kali is known in certain New Age circles as a “kick-ass, no apologies goddess” so do not call upon either Pele or Kali unless you are ready for change! Kali is a strong energy that some find intimidating – so – if uncertain – call on another helper until you are ready for her energy. For any men reading this, in case you are not used to calling in goddesses – they help anyone of any gender. I have received great confidence in the past from Apollo.
Affirmations to employ daily regarding increasing your confidence are: “My confidence is a source of good for myself and others.” “I move forward with confidence and joy, knowing that all is well in my future.” Plant these affirmations of confidence and watch them grow!
Love & Light, Monica