“The best scenario is to desire something and to bring yourself into the belief or expectation of achieving it.  That is creation at its best.  If you have a slight desire for something and you believe you can achieve it, the balance is complete and it becomes yours.  If you have a strong desire for something but you doubt your ability to achieve it, it cannot come, at least not right now, for you must bring your thought of desire and your thought of belief into alignment.”  Abraham  (THE LAW OF ATTRACTION)

I am excited today to bring to you the last three tips of the first quarter of this course on the Law of Attraction.  I hope you are enjoying taking it as much as I am enjoying presenting it!  Today’s three tips complete the first 25 tips of 100 tips regarding the Law of Attraction and complete the section on the physical steps to attraction and manifestation.  Next week we will begin learning the emotional health secrets for attraction and manifestation.  This week please integrate tips 23, 24 & 25 into your life for maximum results and also review the first 25 tips so that you are ready to move on.  If you are employing these tips then you are already noticing some change/s in your life.  You may not yet be where you wish to be; however, slow, steady and easy does it!  Do remember what I have told you before – there is a period where you will still be receiving things that you created unconsciously before you began studying the Law of Attraction and began consciously employing it. However, you will notice that the more you gain mental mastery and the clearer you become with your desires that you put out into the universe and the more appreciation and gratitude you have for all the Good already in your life – the more rapidly your life will change and you will be attracting the things you are consciously creating more often than your unintended creations.


Recognize that each step that you take (baby steps work too!) brings you closer to your desired outcome.  The word action is integral to attraction so – you must act in order to attract.


Like attracts like; therefore, go where you will find like-minded and like-hearted people.  Don’t go to bars unless you want to be with drinkers or sports fans.  Be authentic – don’t wear masks or pretend to be someone you are not to please or attract.  If you like yourself, others will too.


Do not live a virtual reality hiding behind a computer. Get out and connect with people who will connect you with other people and other opportunities.  Be willing to say yes to life and the opportunities it presents.

Believe in yourself.  Believe in your ability to create your best life.  If you are waiting for your husband or wife, an employer, co-worker or friend to give you what you want – then you are turning your power over to others.  Sanaya Roman suggests we employ this affirmation: “I give myself permission to be all I can be.”  (SPIRITUAL GROWTH)  Sanaya also helpfully reminds us that true love is serving people’s souls, not their personalities.  Sometimes, having someone oppose us can turn out, down the road, to be a gift.  Because, in overcoming the resistance of others, we often strengthen our own resolve and develop greater courage and greater commitment to our path.

There may be some of us who believe that what we currently have is the best that we can create and therefore we fear making any changes.  If we feel this way, then it is best to believe that our circumstances can be better, that we can have what we want and that it is perfectly alright for us to do what we love with our life.  There is always a way that circumstances can be switched around.  If you feel this way, then think of reasons NOW why you can have what you want and write these in your journal.

If you are currently in an ebb state then focus on what you are learning because there is always a positive aspect if you look for it.  Is the positive aspect the fact that you now have more time to acquire new knowledge? think? explore new avenues? relax? spend more time with friends? The more you appreciate what you currently have, the faster you will attract your desires.  Remember that as you evolve, you will pass through every stage again and again on your spiritual journey due to the fact that life is like a spiral.  However, each time you will find that you have a higher and higher perspective.  This is gold.

Do not let your fears hold you back from creating your best life.  Remember that you are not your fears, but rather the self experiencing them.  Hand them to the angels and ask that they be taken to the light for purification and transmutation.

It is important when you are creating your best life that you not constantly emphasize your lack of anything when with friends.  Your friends carry an image of you and when you think of yourself you pick up their pictures.  You do not wish to pick up mental pictures from your friends that envision you as financially or in any other way impoverished.  (I maintain a vision of my family and friends as healthy and thriving in every way every day – this is a gift to them and to myself as well) Obviously, we share our dreams, visions and challenges with our close friends; however, don’t dwell on what you don’t have for extended periods of time because this is self-defeating with regard to creating your best life.  If you need help then ask for it and be open to receiving it, but, do not spend all your time focusing on lack of anything whether it be money, health or friends.  We attract what we focus on most.  If you are currently ‘hanging out’ with other people who are also consciously working with the Law of Attraction – then they will help you to stay the course – so to speak.

Proceed every day as though what you are manifesting is on its way and follow any messages from your angels and guides or your Higher Self that come your way.  Create a vision of your abundance and in Divine Order the world will reflect back to you.  Let go of when and how.  Just work confidently toward your goals and leave room for miracles!

Remember to celebrate every success – no matter how small it may seem to you or others  – and have the trust and faith that whatever is going on in your life right now is actually perfect for your growth.  Because, it is.  Earth is a school.

If you are still caught in survival level, here is a fabulous exercise for those of us who are feeling boxed in and feel like we have no way out.  Work with this:

“(1)   Pretend you are in a box, or looking at a wall that stands between you and having what you want.

(2)   What does the box look like?  What is it made of?  How thick is the wall?

(3)   Now, if you are imagining a box, build doors and windows in the box.  Make as many doors and windows as you want until you feel free and comfortable.  Or give yourself whatever tool is appropriate and tear down the wall until you are satisfied that you can easily and freely pass through to the other side.  Working with symbols can create profound changes in your life.  Each time you do this exercise, the things represented by the box or the wall will begin to change, and new opportunities will come to you.”

(CREATING MONEY by Sanaya Roman & Duane Packer)

Patience, persistence and commitment are essential to realizing your dreams.

Answer these questions in your journal.  Is there any reason that I cannot have abundance in my life?  Do I deserve it?  Do I think that people who have money are in some way more deserving than I am?  Think of all the reasons why it is o.k. for you to allow abundance into your life.  What beliefs are you now growing into as a result of these first 25 tips and your increasing understanding of the Law of Attraction?  Write these out in your journal.  As with all courses, you will get out of this course what you put into it!

As you continue to work with the Law of Attraction, creating new feelings and new beliefs about yourself and your worthiness, your magnetism will begin to dramatically increase.

Love & Light,     Monica

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  1. Gillian October 15, 2015 at 12:55 pm Reply

    Hard to believe we’re already a quarter of a way through the course. Yes, I feel a difference in my attitude. I really appreciate having only 2 tips/blog. I created a special email account for Dr Christiane Northrup’s course and when I went to check it yesterday after a few weeks away…there were 71 messages! I was overwhelmed and didn’t look at any of them. Really like your opening quote as that “one step forward, two steps back” dance is very familiar…or, I should say, was very familiar. Here’s to the next 25!

    • Monica October 16, 2015 at 3:53 pm Reply

      Thanks for your continuing feedback – it is appreciated!

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